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Tuesday, February 5, 2013

She Did What She Could

"People who really want to make a difference in the world usually do it, in one way or another. And I’ve noticed something about people who make a difference in the world: They hold the unshakable conviction that individuals are extremely important, that every life matters. They get excited over one smile. They are willing to feed one stomach, educate one mind, and treat one wound. They aren’t determined to revolutionize the world all at once; they’re satisfied with small changes. Over time, though, the small changes add up. Sometimes they even transform cities and nations, and yes, the world.” ~Beth Clark

Sometimes it's overwhelming to see all that's wrong with the world.  War and hunger, homelessness and disease.  Hatred and division.  School shootings and kidnappings and senseless murders.  It can feel hopeless--like nothing we can do will make any difference.

Jesus must have known that things would get that way.  Remember the story of Mary Magdalene who broke her alabaster jar and washed Jesus' feet with her hair?  And when the disciples criticized her, how did Jesus respond?  He defended her, saying simply, "She did what she could."

That might be my favorite story in the entire Bible.  A woman who was looked down upon.  She had only one thing to give to Jesus, and so she gave it.  She did what she could.  And that was enough.

Photo by me - Loretto Chapel - 2012

Giving what we can.  That's all any of us can do.  If we look at all of the things that we can't do, or if we compare what we can do with the things that other people can do.....well that's where we run into problems.

If, instead, we realize that, like Mary Magdalene, we are simply called to do what we can, that's where the little things can make a difference. Mother Teresa understood this, and she said, “Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.”

We can be kind to our neighbors.  We can donate what we are able to the hungry.  We can pray for the lonely.  We can bake a casserole when someone is going through a hard time (particularly if we're from the South).  We can give our time to worthwhile causes.  And while these may be little things, perhaps that is not where the story ends.

A priest put it best at the end of a homily I heard last week when he said, "I trust that if we do the little things that we can do, and if we do them with great love, God will turn these little things into great things." 

Amen to that.

7 comments:

Stephen said...

That one's very true Tiffany. I've long thought that the measure of how much someone wants to change the world (and why) shows in how much boring, frustrating, possibly-futile work they're willing to do. Someone who wants the excitement of changing the world will lobby and shout for more funding for the homeless or organise a protest march for "a fairer society". Someone who actually wants to change the world will do the banging-your-head-against-a-brick-wall task of trying to help the long term homeless adapt to a roofed existence (Theodore Dalrymple writes about this in "Life at the Bottom" - it's harder than you'd think), or tries to arrange an amendment to the Kentucky workers compensation code. Not glamourous, not fun, but actually makes a difference.

Anonymous said...

Love Love Love! Such a profound post today. Gives me much to think about. Keep up the small things that you do, because you are changing a world :)

~LOKG

adesertgirl said...

Yes!! This post is perfect timing. Yesterday I volunteered at Project Share (a soup kitchen of sorts) and this. exact. same. message. was going through my head. It took an hour and a half of my day (and the cost of 5 dozen cupcakes). That's it. Little things. But I may never know how great the rewards are from those little things.

Jennifer said...

Wonderful post Tiff. And right on, makes me feel a little better about coming to work today. Thank you for being so positive!

Linznoel said...

Love this!

teacher85 said...

I agree with you so much. It IS the little things that make a HUGE difference. We will or may not ever know what impact we make as we pass through this world. Very well written, Tiffany.

Bri Hibdon said...

OK I cried- this makes me want to be a better woman.
I have a book recommendation, Altar Ego. It's from our pastor, I'm going to start it in the next week.